Saturday, September 08, 2007
@7:52 PM
many times in life, u'll get to meet some wonderful people whom u click instantly. then u'll chat on for minutes, hours, days and weeks. Then just as quickly as it happened, both of you will start to drift apart - be it due to work, life or family priorities. Until one night you'll suddenly think of this person that you have had shared some special moments with. You'll start wondering if that person is doing well, whether or not he/she still remembers you, and how come you guys just stopped talking, or doesnt talk as often as before.
such instant connections between two people doesn't come often. sometimes it takes years later until you meet someone who's able to give you that sense of familiarity and closeness. it's interesting how things can easily start off between two total strangers, as though you've known each other for yolks years and finally meet for a long catch up on each individual's life. then you begin wondering if it's fate that brought the both of you together, and slowly apart.
life does have such surprising moments and depressing times where it just sneak up on you out of the blue. If u're lucky, you'll even meet that special someone who'll give you that extra push when you're having some problems or difficulties in that stage of life. Then that special someone will hang around in your life, until your fate with him/her is up and you just have to let them go...
God gives us obstacles in life inorder to mould us into someone stronger, more matured and independent, and street-smart. So that we know how to handle ourselves when such similiar cases appear in our life again, and that we'll be able to deal with it in a much grown-up manner. So that we'll learn to appreciate what we have lost, learnt and gained in the process. So that we can be who we are today - still learning and changing.
no matter what we have been through so far, we still have alot more things to learn and road to walk. the older we get, the more obstacles will be awaiting for us at each and every crossroads. no matter what decisions we have made or going to make, life still goes on. And we'll stand firmer, mentally prepared and though emotionally/physically bruised, but never surrenders.
xoxox