Before I head to sleep, decided to do a quick blog of what i did today lol
Managed to meet up with Davinia this afternoon for movie and dinner in Orchard. We went to catch The Family Stone and it was really heartwarming show. Sarah Jessica Parker is as amazing as always and basically the whole movie plot was good! There was really some unexpected twist here n there :) Had to hold back my tears during some scenes too. Hahhahha Anyway after the movie we headed down to Din Tai Fong for dinner. Davi wanted to check out the new japanese restaurant at Wheellock Place but she felt kinda full after munching away those peanuts during the movie so ended up going for a quick bite at Paragon. Had to wait for abit while as to the usual queue outside the restaurant and I ordered some take-aways for my mummy n grandparents back home. hehehhe supper snack.
While we were waiting for my take-aways to be done, I striked up a conversation with Davi about first impressions and attractiveness. She believes that the most important of a person is the personalities and not whats outside that counts, which I totally agrees in too. But then, who would take time out to actually wanna understand and know someone as plain as Jane when they can actually hang out with an attractive lady by their side? Sure he might probably find out later that her personality stucks and how many bad points she could or might not have, but what guys think about all the time is always S*X. Plain and simple. Once they have it, they can just throw her aside when and as they pleased.
Frankly speaking, how many attractive/skinny girls in Singapore do you know who does not have a good personality? I know for a fact that the girls I know are all nice and wonderful people. All skinny/slim, pretty and very capable.Basically almost EVERYWHERE u see in Singapore is skinny/slim/attractive/pretty girls... So it is really a very competitive market for girls like me against them. Therefore, like the old saying goes, if you can't beat them, join them. Alas, I have to lose weight...............
But then again, once i lost the excess baggage away, and if really the potentials come flocking in, wouldn't u say that it's all really very much fakeness? U didn't like me before but you like me now? Just becos I've lost those excess baggage?
So in fact... outlooks does outweighs personalities... and that is as real as how unfair life is...
Well, don't know if this makes any sense cos i'm blogging at 2plus in the morning and my mind is drifting away...just a thought anyway...
nite.